A couple of my friends who works for escorts in Kent services seem to be going through tough times in their relationships. Being with someone for a long time is not always easy, and being an escort does not make you a relationship expert. The Kent escorts came into see us here at the Better Sex Guide, and I have to admit that they seemed really down in the dumps. It goes without saying that we sat down for a good chat, and to see if we could help our friends from Kent. Most of the girls in the ofﬁce are in long term relationships and recognise how difﬁcult it can be.
Personally, I have been married for 14 years but my husband and I have known each other for 16 years. I told the escorts in Kent that it had not always been easy, but my husband and I are both good communicators. We ﬁnd it easy to talk to each other and we talk about most things on a daily basis. It does not matter if it is just a chat I told the Kent escorts, it is still talking. Last night we went to bed and spent an hour talking in bed, it was just nice. Learning to talk to each other is an important part of every relationship.
I am an individual and so is my husband. As a matter of fact, it is really important to be able to recognise and respect each other as individuals. I asked my Kent escorts friends if they recognised their partners and themselves as individuals. A lot happens when two become one but at the end of the day we are still individuals, we have different dreams and desires. You might want to go on holiday to Greece but he may want to go to Barbados – simple things like that matter I told my Kent escorts friends.
Time is an important factor as well. You need to be able to spend time with your partner. It doesn’t matter if you do just nothing as long as you have set aside some time to be together. I told my Kent escorts friends that they should try to go out with their partners more, but at the same time avoid stressful situations. Shopping together in Tesco’s in Bromley is not quality time – it can be darn right stressful. I wonder how often we spend time with our partners in stressful situations without thinking about it.
I feel really sorry for my escorts in Kent friends, but learning how to live with another person is a steep learning curve. It may not happen overnight and it can take years. Patience is another important factor in every relationship and you need to have patience with each other. Once you start showing patience you will notice a lot of the other things such as communication, respect and time, will sort themselves out. I am a very patient person and don’t rush them, and I know that my husband is a very patient person as well.